NEAR FUTURE GOES MENTAL
I have been searching for the right words to express the complexity of my feelings learning about a friend's decision to take her own life last week. She was a beloved mother, wife and friend to many. The loss was collective and profound. Having experienced the particular pang suicide presents, I didn't feel the blame and guilt that can be a natural reaction when a loved one choses to leave their family and friends behind. I believe she believed that she was making a decision which was best for everyone. She was wrong, but not malicious. She clearly didn't get the help she needed, despite an incredible support system. In tandem, half a dozen friends had reached out asking for resources for their children's depression or addiction issues, epidemics that are crippling the nation. Last week was so personal, yet so common and prolific.
With all of this weighing heavy on my mind, holding back tears and braving torrential rain, I moderated a conversation that couldn't have been more timely or more cathartic. In collaboration with Project Healthy Minds, hosted at mental health advocate Sheri Sobrato's beautiful home, we conjured an inspiring and heartfelt evening focused on resources and solutions. I am immensely grateful for an honest and powerful conversation featuring founders and practitioners trailblazing towards a brighter future. With that in mind, this newsletter is dedicated to the teams taking on trauma and giving us some of the tools we need to be more {peace of} mindful,
* It was also a reminder that we need more time together taking on tough topics. I hope you will join us next week at Barndiva in Healdsburg for an uplifting "Trash Talk" (see the invite below). Happy Valentines month, Zem & team